Today we cover what to do when your spouse isn’t not on board with your prosperity plan, in particular, tithing. 

What do you do if your spouse isn’t on board with your prosperity plan, in particular, tithing? Contrast with a spouse is one of the biggest issues I see as people up-level themselves through their second awakening process with me in my programs, there’s a lot of contrast that happens with the spouse. 

First we have to remember that our spouses are here to show us how to level up to the next level. Your higher self brought you together with them so that you could learn from each other and harness the power from the emotions that come up when you guys are having contrast. You have to understand that they are in your life to teach you the lessons that you need to learn, and those lessons will keep showing up until you do learn them. 

Money is a big lesson that shows up with our spouses all the time. Even when things are in flow, there can still be conflict because if one spouse wants to spend it on item A and the other spouse wants to spend it on item B. There’s always a very interesting contrast with money, especially since money is the test of our spiritual strength. 

Yes, it is a test. And if you’re really serious about creating a prosperous life , then you need to do the inner work and remember that this is your reality that you’re creating. You’re going to have to tap in and understand what your next step is with your prosperity plan. I am by no means giving marriage advice, but I will say this, you have to tap into your own inner gnosis and discover what your next step is.  

One option is to take the step towards your prosperity with tithing, even if the spouse isn’t fully on board. You can take part of your income and tithe so you can begin to be an example of what to do. And as you begin to see the results of your tightening, then your spouse may begin to get curious about what you are doing. Lead by example. Instead of having an argument with them about it, tap into your gnosis, make sure it feels right, and be the example. That’s the only way things are going to shift. 

Our spouses are our greatest teachers, that is why we chose them. I love my husband dearly and I know he’s my greatest teacher. When I have contrast I sit for a moment and first acknowledge that the situation isn’t even real, I created it so I can level myself up. Then I reflect and wonder, “What am I supposed to hear? What is the thing that’s triggering me the most?” Then I figure out where my emotions are around it. Where am I being triggered and why? And I do the inner work. All we can do is do the inner work and come out of it a better person. And then we’re stronger for it. 

If you’re having contrast with your spouse over money, just know that there’s a huge lesson for you. They’re a mirror of you. So whatever they’re saying, you’re feeling as well. You have to do the inner work and make the first shift. We can’t fix the world until we make our own bed, that’s a famous Jordan Peterson concept. You have got to go make your own bed before you help anyone else. So even though you may be looking at your spouse, thinking you want to help them with their prosperity, you’re going to have to help yourself first. 

Again, I am not giving anyone marriage advice, but if it was me, I would set the example by doing what I knew would create the prosperity that we both desire and deserve. Be the example you want to see in the world and then bring them on board. And if you’re strong in your relationship, it will survive this process and you will be both stronger in the end.

Get them on board by sharing what you are learning about prosperity. There are plenty of books about tithing out there with all sorts of wonderful examples that you can share so they can understand what tithing is. You’re not just taking 10% of your money and giving it away. If you do that, then they are going to wonder what the heck you are doing. Make sure that there’s a real understanding. Have them listen to this prosperity series so that you guys are on the same page about what money is, where it comes from and how to have a relationship with it. You can also start with the Edwene Gaines’ book, The Four Spiritual Laws of Prosperity so that you guys can be on the same page, energetically, about money and creating prosperity together. That will make a beautiful and long lasting relationship that you will be so grateful for.

Just know you are strong and can hold steady with who you are, a spiritual being connected to Source. Make sure you’re making the right decisions for yourself, and prosperity will come. Just ask Source for assistance. and you will always be taken care of. 

I hope this episode brought you the clarity that you need. We have five episodes left in our prosperity series to make sure you subscribe to this podcast, so you don’t miss these last episodes. And if you like what you’re hearing, leave a review, I’ll catch you in the next episode.

Key Points:

• You Spouse is your greatest teacher
• Money is a test of our spiritual strength
• Lead by being an example of prosperity

Resources: 

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You can find the Edwene Gaines book referenced, The Four Spiritual Laws of Prosperity, on Amazon.